Aromatherapy and Vaginal Dryness

Aromatherapy and Vaginal Dryness

written by: Jade Shutes, BA, Dipl. AT, Cert. Herbalist


Rose - Rosa damascena  Strong affinity with the female reproductive system, loving and compassionate

Rose – Rosa damascena

A few women have asked recently about what they can do for vaginal dryness so I thought I would share my insights and a couple of recipes that work really well to address this issue.

Vaginal dryness and atrophy commonly occurs during the menopausal and postmenopausal years as a result of the reduction of estrogen. This reduction of estrogen may lead to: vaginal itching and irritation, dryness, increased susceptibility to vaginal infections (due to change in pH), painful intercourse, and decreased arousal. The one comment common to the women who asked was that intercourse/love making was becoming an issue due to it being painful. I hope the recipes provided are of service both for sexual intimacy as well as to support healthy, lubricated vaginal tissue.

According to Margi Flint, differential diagnosis should rule out other causes of vaginal bleeding, itching, irritation, including sexually transmitted infections, malignancy, Sjogren’s syndrome, or diabetes. A number of medications can lead to symptoms of vaginal dryness. Urethral dryness, atrophy, and irritation also can accompany vaginal atrophy and dryness.

The role of aromatherapy and essential oils is mainly to support tissue integrity, reduce irritation and inflammation, and to lubricate the vaginal tissue.

Calendula Calendula officinalis

Calendula: Calendula officinalis

Herbal Oils To Consider:

  • Calendula (Calendula officinalis) – one of my all time favorite plants! Calendula is soothing to vaginal tissue (and the skin in general), healing (vulnerary), and offers antimicrobial activity (potentially preventing infections). Calendula is also a great anti-inflammatory herbal oil.
  • Comfrey root and/or leaf (Symphytum officinale) – a wonderful herb that is moistening, healing and soothing to inflamed tissue. Due to its mucilaginous nature, comfrey is a great emollient as well.
  • Lavender (Lavandula angustifolia) – anti-inflammatory and soothing to vaginal tissue
  • Red Clover (Trifolium pratense) – According to Margi Flint “red clover (leaf, stem and flower) contain phytoextrogenic isoflavones such as formononetin, biochanin A, daidzein, and genistein and has demonstrable phytoextrogenic activity that makes it an important heart to consider for menopausal complaints, including vaginal atrophy and dryness.
  • St John’s Wort (Hypericum perforatum) – another beautiful herbal oil to work with. St. Johns wort is anti-inflammatory,  and tissue healing (vulnerary).
  • Wild Yam (Dioscorea villosa) – a soothing herbal oil offering anti-inflammatory activity and possible estrogen-like activity (*insufficient evidence is available to support this activity), energetically has an affinity with the female reproductive system

Essential Oils To Consider:

  • Roman chamomile (Chamaemelum nobile): anti-inflammatory, antimicrobial
  • Cape chamomile (Eriocephalus punctulatus): anti-inflammatory, vulnerary, supports cellular regeneration, reduces itching
  • Frankincense (Boswellia carteri): soothing to mucus membranes
  • Helichrysum (Helichrysum italicum): healing to the tissue, anti-inflammatory
  • Lavender (Lavandula angustifolia): soothing and anti-inflammatory. healing to tissue
  • Neroli (Citrus aurantium var. amara flos.: soothing, reduces stress/anxiety, supports healthy tissue regeneration
  • Rose (Rosa damascena): soothing and supports healthy tissue regeneration, strong affinity to the female reproductive system, reduces irritation
  • Sandalwood (Santalum sp.): soothing and in my personal experience, moistening to the tissue, relieves irritation and itchiness
both clear salve jars color beautiful

Healing Salves

Lubricating Salve

To make 4 ounces:

  • 1/4 cup Calendula herbal oil
  • 1/8 cup St Johns wort herbal oil
  • 1/8 cup Comfrey leaf and/or root herbal oil
  • 1/2 ounce beeswax
  • 10 drops of Neroli
  • 5 drops Roman chamomile
  • 10 drops Frankincense
  • 7 drops Lavender

Lubricating Salve II

To make 4 ounces:

  • 1/4 cup Calendula herbal oil
  • 1/4 cup Extra virgin olive oil
  • 1/2 ounce beeswax
  • 10 drops Sandalwood
  • 12 drops Frankincense
  • 5 drops Rose

To make salves

  1. Using a double boiler or a large pyrex cup in a pan with approx. 1/4 water, melt beeswax.
  2. Just before beeswax is melted, add in olive oil (or other vegetable oil/s) and herbal oil/s.
  3. Once all melted and well combined (stir well!), remove top pot or pyrex cup from heat.
  4. Wipe bottom and sides so that it is completely dry. (you don’t want to get water into your salve!)
  5. Add in essential oils and then stir until well combined.
  6. Pour into 2 – 2ounce sterilized jars.
  7. Label jars with name, ingredients and date made. *Salves typically last up to 24 months but are best used within 6-8 months of making.


Lubricating and Healing Oil

To make 4 ounces:

  • 2 ounces Calendula herbal oil
  • 1 ounce Comfrey root and/or leaf herbal oil
  • 1 ounce Lavender herbal oil
  • 14 drops Sandalwood or Frankincense
  • 6 drops Roman chamomile
  • 5 drops Rose

Lubricating and Healing Oil II

To make 4 ounces:

  • 2 ounces Calendula herbal oil
  • 1 ounce Red clover herbal oil
  • 1 ounce Wild Yam herbal oil
  • 10 drops Cape chamomile
  • 14 drops Lavender
  • 8 drops Helichrysum

Vaginal Suppositories

The cut suppositories. Stored in glass container in freezer until used.

What are vaginal suppositories?
Suppositories are commonly made from a combination of cocoa butter and another semifluid oil such as coconut or vegetable oil such as sesame oil.  Suppositories are typically indicated for vaginal infections and inflammation, vaginal dryness, cervical dysplasia, rectal fissures, and hemorrhoids. (Romm, A) I have used aromatic suppositories for the treatment of both hemorrhoids, bronchitis, vaginal irritation, and a rectal fissure with great success.

The term suppository is derived from the Latin suppositorum, which means, “something placed beneath’. Pessary is an interchangeable term, referring specifically to a vaginal suppository.

How to make:
The ingredients you will need include:

  • 20 gms of Organic cocoa butter (about 1/4 cup) OR
  • 10 gms Organic cocoa butter and 10 gms Organic coconut oil
10mls Organic sesame oil OR infused herbal oil (e.g. Calendula, or a combination of other medicinal herbs)

***Prior to making the suppositories be sure to clean/sterilize all pots, measuring cups, bowl to weigh cocoa butter, and wooden spoon that will be used to make suppositories. And of course, wash your hands before making!

Steps to make suppositories:

Step One: First thing to do is make your suppository molds. You can do this by wrapping aluminum foil around the handle of a ‘thin’ wooden spoon handle. Wrap about 4 or 5 times around then cut and press to make sure it holds together.  Remove foil from spoon handle and fold one end up a couple of times. Place mold in cup so it stands up. I ended up needing two molds.

Making a suppository mold with aluminum foil

Making a suppository mold with aluminum foil

Completing the mold: Cut the extra off aluminum foil off and then close off one end of mold by folding over twice.

Close off one end of mold

Close off one end of mold by folding over twice

Step Two: Prepare your essential oils synergy so its ready once you melt the cocoa butter with the sesame.

Here is a wonderful and healing essential oil synergy for vaginal dryness.

  • 20 drops Rose essential oil (Rosa damascena)
  • 20 drops Sandalwood essential oil (Santalum album or other Santalum sp.)

Step Three: In a double boiler, gently and slowly melt down all ingredients except essential oils.
Once melted, immediately remove from heat. *Note: if cocoa butter is overheated or heated for too long, it will not be able to harden.

Mixing cocoa butter and sesame oil together with chop stick

Mixing cocoa butter and sesame oil together with chop stick

Step Four: Add in essential oil synergy. Stir well.

Step Five: Pour into suppositories molds. Be sure to close top flap down.

Pouring mix into mold

Pouring mix into mold


Step Six: Place in glass cup so that the molds are standing up.

Step Seven: Put in freezer to harden. (approx. 1 hour)

Placing molds in freezer.

Step Eight: Once the suppositories are hardened, remove from freezer and unwrap. Cut into approx. 1 inch long pieces.

Unwrapping frozen suppositories

Unwrapping frozen suppositories

Step Nine: Place suppositories into glass storage container and keep in freezer.

The cut suppositories. Stored in glass container in freezer until used.

The cut suppositories. Stored in glass container in freezer until used.

Step Ten: Use 1x a day in the evening or 3-4 of hours before love making.



Flint, Margi. Vaginal Dryness and Atrophy. pg 512 – 516. Botanical Medicine for Women’s Health. by Dr. Aviva Romm.


  1. Beth Chatham says:

    thanks Jade…..very timely :)

  2. Wonderful blog post! Vetiver and Yarrow are also great to consider. According to Battalgia they help to regulate hormonal secretions of estrogen and progesterone. And assists in strengthening weak, loose or fatigued connective tissue, as well as balance Yin/Yang.

  3. Sandra Almeida says:

    I made the vaginal suppositories for dryness using sandalwood and Frankincense by Jade. Excellent!!! I was very impressed with the fast results!!! Also, I blended the lubricating and healing oil using sesame oil and essentials oils blend with Roman and Cape chamomile, Immortelle, Sandalwood and Frankincense. I’m very happy with the results!! Thanks Jade, again.

  4. Good evening, I have just completed the lubricating and healing oil recipe. I was wondering how many times you recommend using it. I use to apply neogyn twice a day. So I think I will do the same. Please let me know what you think. I am so grateful for your site. Thank you.

    • Hello Brigitte,

      I have found using them 2x a day or as needed (1x a day) is good. Thank you for your note.
      Warm regards, Jade

  5. Anita brown says:

    Thank you so much for your info I know that the coconut oil works just never used with any essential oil but will try your recipes

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